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Sex Therapy & Psychosexual Counselling in London

Whether you have a sexual performance issue, an intimacy issue, a phobia or anxiety, or concerns about a change in your sexual desire or that of your partner, talking with a trained Relationship & Sex Therapist can help.

The sexual inner life is an intensely personal and private area of your identity. You may have trouble admitting to yourself, let alone to anyone else, what you might be thinking or feeling. Talking with a trained and experienced psychosexual therapist, who is there to guide and support with empathy and understanding, and who will not judge, can allow you to open up and understand your sexual issues or frustrations.

What Sexual Difficulties Do People Bring To Psychosexual Counselling?

There can be a very wide range of issues around sex, for example:

  • sex becoming routine and ‘always the same’
  • loss of desire for sex, which is confusing and upsetting
  • going to bed at different times from your partner to avoid sex or any intimacy
  • body image issues and sexual confidence issues
  • questioning your sexual identity, wanting to explore new things causing divergence from your partner

Specific sex issues men bring:

  • erectile dysfunction
  • retarded or premature ejaculation
  • loss or reduction of sex drive
  • sexual aversion, shyness or phobias
  • psychosexual issues after a diagnosis of cancer

Among women the main sexual problems are:

  • lack of physiological responsiveness (lack of lubrication and/or lack of the expansion of the vaginal canal)
  • inability or difficulty to reach a climax
  • loss or reduction of the sex drive
  • vaginismus (tightening of the muscles surrounding the vagina when sexual intercourse is attempted)
  • intense pain in sexual intercourse

Working with a Psychosexual Therapist

Some of the possibly relevant factors which can be explored in Psychosexual Counselling are:

  • anxiety about sex
  • relationship problems
  • unhelpful habits which have developed
  • fears of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases
  • depressed mood
  • misconceptions, incorrect beliefs and ignorance about sex
  • strict moral attitudes

In addition to discussion and exploration during sessions there may be homework to be done in between sessions.

Sexual Obsessions and Addictions

Any practice or habit can become a destructive behaviour when it dominates your life, interferes with relationships and makes you lose interest in careers, hobbies and your health and wellbeing, and despite that, you’re in a daily battle where you feel compelled to continue the behaviour however much you’d like to stop it.

Symptoms of sexual addiction or at any rate overly obsessive behaviour may include:

  • compulsive masturbation
  • compulsive use of pornography (porn addiction)
  • multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands
  • regular use of prostitutes
  • unsafe sex
  • stalking, harassment and anything which is illegal.

Working with a Psychosexual Counsellor

Working with Marcus, Psychosexual Counselling will help you to identify triggers, develop coping strategies, identify new and different pleasurable activities, renegotiate relationships, manage cravings, and deal with any underlying causes such as stress, anger, depression or anxiety.

Sex Therapy & Psychosexual Counselling with Marcus

Take the first step to work through your sexual difficulties, obsessions and addictions and contact Marcus to talk about Psychosexual Counselling.

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Some helpful articles and web pages on Sex Therapy & Sexual Difficulties

CORST – College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
Have some helpful advice on their website – Information for the public

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Pesso Boyden Group with accredited practitioners Deborah Clarke and Marcus Gottlieb

Pesso Boyden Group with accredited PBSP practitioners Deborah Clarke and Marcus Gottlieb

Pesso Boyden Therapy (‘PBSP’) is a philosophical process for becoming whole.

It is a respectful, interactive group process that heals by embedding new memories in the brain and in the body

Most people consciously or unconsciously have memories – explicit or implicit – of 

1. deficits 

2. traumas 

3. having to take care of others when we were too young – e.g. protecting a sibling, providing the joy in the life of an unhappy parent, unconsciously becoming the ‘spouse’ of a widowed parent, or making the world right after hearing stories of injustice. 

When any of these three categories of memory appear in the client’s work, the client and therapist work together to externalise them, in order to illuminate the client’s ways of handling life and to facilitate change. The client is always in charge of this process – people and incidents from the client’s past will be symbolised in the here-and-now either by people in the group or by objects in the room, all chosen and placed by the client. 

The therapist then works with the client to facilitate an antidote to what happened in the past – a new memory which provides what the client needed at that particular time in their past, from a specific kinship figure. This new memory may be developed over several sessions in a number of steps. In the Pesso approach we don’t change our history; however, we do change our response to our history, leading to a new perspective. 

The way is opened to possibilities of greater pleasure, satisfaction, meaning, integration and connectedness.

 



Deborah has worked as a Performance Coach for over 16 years having trained with Coach U. Her background is in the arts as an actor, theatre director and artistic director. She has worked with a wide range of people from all walks of life. Having first encountered Pesso Boyden as a client, she felt inspired to do the training herself. Since graduating in 2013 she has been running Personal Development workshops using the Pesso Boyden system and is now accredited by the official PBSP U.K. organisation.

Notting Hill Therapist | Marcus Gottlieb Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Marcus Gottlieb is a highly experienced London-based psychotherapist with a particular interest in boarding school survivor syndrome. Having trained alongside Deborah directly under Al Pesso and his closest collaborator Lowijs van Perquin, he is steeped in the work of PBSP and a strong believer in the client’s genetic impulse towards health and expression of their unique potential and individual destiny. He became an accredited Pesso Boyden therapist in 2021.
An Introduction to the Pesso Boyden Method

 

An opportunity to learn about and observe the distinctive techniques of this respectful body-based psychotherapy.

Suitable for both psychologically interested professionals, people seeking personal development/CPD and for people not in the therapeutic professions seeking to address entrenched issues. For all those who are interested in living a larger life. A special price of £35 for the day includes lunch and refreshments. CPD certificates will be available.

PBSP (Pesso-Boyden System Psychomotor) is a powerful, deeply respectful, psychotherapeutic process that uses feedback, ritual, objects and role players in a unique manner to heal the traumas, wounds and losses that affect our personal map of the world.

Its central goal is the imaginative creation of an ‘ideal’ healthy past that a person’s brain processes so that they emerge feeling differently about themselves. As Albert Pesso said, ‘Humanity is responsible for the meaning that surrounds us. The task for each person is to create a meaningful life and then live it with existential courage and passion.’

As well as gaining new perspectives, clients often experience increased pleasure, satisfaction, meaning and connectedness following a PBSP session and find themselves psychologically freer to make the changes they wish for in their lives.
Date: Saturday 7 October 2017
Venue: Notting Hill, London W11
Time: 10.00 am – 4.30 pm
Cost: £35 (inc lunch & refreshments)

 

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Boarding School Survivor Syndrome Conference

BOARDING SCHOOL: Surviving the Syndrome
Broken Attachment and Childhood Trauma

University of Brighton

Saturday 9 September 2017
9.30 am to 5.00 pm

Conference for psychotherapists, counsellors, mental health workers, boarding school survivors and other interested people.

Conference overall aims are to:
§ Present key aspects of what has been published about the psychological and other effects of boarding.
§ Explore helpful therapeutic approaches for clients who are former boarders.
§ Consider current research and a possible agenda for future research
§ Enable networking amongst those interested in this important topic

Chair: Pam Howard, School of Applied Social Science, University of Brighton.

Speakers: Nick Duffell, Joy Schaverien, Alex Renton, Thurstine Basset, Anni Townend, Olya Khaleelee.

Group Discussion Facilitators: Marcus Gottlieb, Leslie Lund, Nicola Miller, Simon Partridge, Boarding Concern Directors.

For more details, contact Laura Williams:
southcoastevents@brighton.ac.uk

Pesso Boyden Workshop with Ana María Ruiz Sancho and Marcus Gottlieb

 

Pesso Boyden Therapy is a respectful and highly respected, body-based psychotherapy with distinctive techniques aimed at addressing entrenched issues. It is an interactive process that creates new body-based memories to heal emotional deficits of the past.

An exceptionally powerful personal development tool, it uses feedback, systematic procedures, objects and role players in a unique methodology, in order to repair the early traumas, wounds and losses that can powerfully influence the brain’s map of the world.

In shifting underlying perspectives, the way is opened to the possibility of greater pleasure, satisfaction, meaning and connectedness, and an enhanced freedom to effect longed-for changes.

It is expected there will be between 8 and 12 participants, with an absolute maximum of 15. The day will start with an explanation of Pesso Boyden and an experiential introduction, followed by 4 actual client sessions of an hour each.

Venue: Philadelphia Association, 4 Marty’s Yard, London NW3 1QW
Date: Saturday 3 June 2017
Time: 0930 to 1800
Cost: £75

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Ana María Ruiz Sancho is an experienced psychiatrist and a psychotherapist. She is also a specialist in group dynamics and an Institutional and Team Motivation Consultant.

Ana is the Founder and a Director of VocAcción, as well as being a qualified Pesso Boyden psychotherapist.


Notting Hill Therapist | Marcus Gottlieb Psychotherapist & Counsellor

Marcus Gottlieb works with relationships, sexuality, abuse and trauma, with a particular interest in boarding school survivor syndrome. Qualified in Pesso Boyden as well as other psychotherapies, he is also an Alexander Technique teacher.

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