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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) in London

A cognitive and behavioural therapeutic approach is combined with and integrated into the wide range of tools and modalities Marcus draws on as an experienced psychotherapist to meet your particular needs and goals.

Cognitive-behavioural methods are combined with gestalt, formative and psychodynamic approaches as well as humanistic therapies like psychosynthesis and transactional analysis.

Cognitive Behavioural Approach to Anxiety, Stress and Overwhelm

When you experience stress, overwhelm, anxiety or even panic attacks, the most effective response in therapy is to closely (and without judgment) examine the detail of what happens. The Cognitive Behavioural therapist tracks with you, in forensic detail, the what, when and how of, for example, the panic attack.

The Cognitive Behavioural approach to stress and anxiety will:

  • Help you learn what the triggers for the stress or anxiety are, in terms of external events or internal thoughts and sensations.
  • Highlight the negative thoughts and expectations that pass through your mind, the associated sensations in the body and the thoughts that arise in reaction to those sensations.

Therapy for Anxiety, Stress and Overwhelm teaches you to self-regulate and self-soothe using mindfulness, affirmation, ‘somatic experiencing’ and ‘personal space’ exercises and the tools of Pesso-Boyden Therapy.

Phobias, Social Anxiety and Cognitive Behavioural Methods

In Therapy for Social Anxiety or Phobia we look at negative cognitions. That’s the negative predictions and assumptions you carry around that are associated with your fears and anxieties. We work collaboratively to reverse these, replacing them with positive thoughts that will influence your attitudes, feelings and behaviours in a more helpful direction.

Reinforcement strategies are used, by setting small achievable tasks to challenge you in a way that supports your new ways of thinking in a positive direction. A variety of techniques to calm the tension and agitation in your body back up the cognitive and behavioural work, to help give permanence to your more secure, hopeful and empowered outlook.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Confidence, Self-esteem, Assertiveness

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on identifying the negative beliefs that damage your self-confidence and, by a process of ‘reality checking’, these beliefs are adjusted to fit a healthier, more positive perspective. Small, incremental steps are encouraged and repeated to expand your zone of safety, and we also work with the body to address what you are communicating non-verbally and unconsciously both to others and to yourself. More about CBT for Self-confidence.

“What people bring to therapy is their impossibility, the ever-present tension between ‘I can’t go on’ and ‘I must go on’ which Samuel Beckett’s plays represent so well.” Hugh Hetherington, therapist

Sleep Issues & Insomnia and a Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Approach

A large part of the difficulty with insomnia and inadequate sleep and relaxation is the prevalence and influence of negative thoughts and predictions. In a cognitive, behavioural, multi-pronged approach, your thinking is adjusted along with your behavioural practices and we also work at the somatic, physical level to address the way you maintain and manage stress. See  Sleep Disorders & Insomnia Therapy.

Therapy from a Cognitive Behavioural Perspective

In addition to the above, a Cognitive Behavioural methodology is useful in working with body image, sexual difficulties and many others issues. Speak to Marcus if you would like to talk about any of these types of concerns.

 

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Pesso Boyden Group with accredited practitioners Deborah Clarke and Marcus Gottlieb

Pesso Boyden Group with accredited PBSP practitioners Deborah Clarke and Marcus Gottlieb

Pesso Boyden Therapy (‘PBSP’) is a philosophical process for becoming whole.

It is a respectful, interactive group process that heals by embedding new memories in the brain and in the body

Most people consciously or unconsciously have memories – explicit or implicit – of 

1. deficits 

2. traumas 

3. having to take care of others when we were too young – e.g. protecting a sibling, providing the joy in the life of an unhappy parent, unconsciously becoming the ‘spouse’ of a widowed parent, or making the world right after hearing stories of injustice. 

When any of these three categories of memory appear in the client’s work, the client and therapist work together to externalise them, in order to illuminate the client’s ways of handling life and to facilitate change. The client is always in charge of this process – people and incidents from the client’s past will be symbolised in the here-and-now either by people in the group or by objects in the room, all chosen and placed by the client. 

The therapist then works with the client to facilitate an antidote to what happened in the past – a new memory which provides what the client needed at that particular time in their past, from a specific kinship figure. This new memory may be developed over several sessions in a number of steps. In the Pesso approach we don’t change our history; however, we do change our response to our history, leading to a new perspective. 

The way is opened to possibilities of greater pleasure, satisfaction, meaning, integration and connectedness.

 



Deborah has worked as a Performance Coach for over 16 years having trained with Coach U. Her background is in the arts as an actor, theatre director and artistic director. She has worked with a wide range of people from all walks of life. Having first encountered Pesso Boyden as a client, she felt inspired to do the training herself. Since graduating in 2013 she has been running Personal Development workshops using the Pesso Boyden system and is now accredited by the official PBSP U.K. organisation.

Notting Hill Therapist | Marcus Gottlieb Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Marcus Gottlieb is a highly experienced London-based psychotherapist with a particular interest in boarding school survivor syndrome. Having trained alongside Deborah directly under Al Pesso and his closest collaborator Lowijs van Perquin, he is steeped in the work of PBSP and a strong believer in the client’s genetic impulse towards health and expression of their unique potential and individual destiny. He became an accredited Pesso Boyden therapist in 2021.
An Introduction to the Pesso Boyden Method

 

An opportunity to learn about and observe the distinctive techniques of this respectful body-based psychotherapy.

Suitable for both psychologically interested professionals, people seeking personal development/CPD and for people not in the therapeutic professions seeking to address entrenched issues. For all those who are interested in living a larger life. A special price of £35 for the day includes lunch and refreshments. CPD certificates will be available.

PBSP (Pesso-Boyden System Psychomotor) is a powerful, deeply respectful, psychotherapeutic process that uses feedback, ritual, objects and role players in a unique manner to heal the traumas, wounds and losses that affect our personal map of the world.

Its central goal is the imaginative creation of an ‘ideal’ healthy past that a person’s brain processes so that they emerge feeling differently about themselves. As Albert Pesso said, ‘Humanity is responsible for the meaning that surrounds us. The task for each person is to create a meaningful life and then live it with existential courage and passion.’

As well as gaining new perspectives, clients often experience increased pleasure, satisfaction, meaning and connectedness following a PBSP session and find themselves psychologically freer to make the changes they wish for in their lives.
Date: Saturday 7 October 2017
Venue: Notting Hill, London W11
Time: 10.00 am – 4.30 pm
Cost: £35 (inc lunch & refreshments)

 

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Boarding School Survivor Syndrome Conference

BOARDING SCHOOL: Surviving the Syndrome
Broken Attachment and Childhood Trauma

University of Brighton

Saturday 9 September 2017
9.30 am to 5.00 pm

Conference for psychotherapists, counsellors, mental health workers, boarding school survivors and other interested people.

Conference overall aims are to:
§ Present key aspects of what has been published about the psychological and other effects of boarding.
§ Explore helpful therapeutic approaches for clients who are former boarders.
§ Consider current research and a possible agenda for future research
§ Enable networking amongst those interested in this important topic

Chair: Pam Howard, School of Applied Social Science, University of Brighton.

Speakers: Nick Duffell, Joy Schaverien, Alex Renton, Thurstine Basset, Anni Townend, Olya Khaleelee.

Group Discussion Facilitators: Marcus Gottlieb, Leslie Lund, Nicola Miller, Simon Partridge, Boarding Concern Directors.

For more details, contact Laura Williams:
southcoastevents@brighton.ac.uk

Pesso Boyden Workshop with Ana María Ruiz Sancho and Marcus Gottlieb

 

Pesso Boyden Therapy is a respectful and highly respected, body-based psychotherapy with distinctive techniques aimed at addressing entrenched issues. It is an interactive process that creates new body-based memories to heal emotional deficits of the past.

An exceptionally powerful personal development tool, it uses feedback, systematic procedures, objects and role players in a unique methodology, in order to repair the early traumas, wounds and losses that can powerfully influence the brain’s map of the world.

In shifting underlying perspectives, the way is opened to the possibility of greater pleasure, satisfaction, meaning and connectedness, and an enhanced freedom to effect longed-for changes.

It is expected there will be between 8 and 12 participants, with an absolute maximum of 15. The day will start with an explanation of Pesso Boyden and an experiential introduction, followed by 4 actual client sessions of an hour each.

Venue: Philadelphia Association, 4 Marty’s Yard, London NW3 1QW
Date: Saturday 3 June 2017
Time: 0930 to 1800
Cost: £75

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Ana María Ruiz Sancho is an experienced psychiatrist and a psychotherapist. She is also a specialist in group dynamics and an Institutional and Team Motivation Consultant.

Ana is the Founder and a Director of VocAcción, as well as being a qualified Pesso Boyden psychotherapist.


Notting Hill Therapist | Marcus Gottlieb Psychotherapist & Counsellor

Marcus Gottlieb works with relationships, sexuality, abuse and trauma, with a particular interest in boarding school survivor syndrome. Qualified in Pesso Boyden as well as other psychotherapies, he is also an Alexander Technique teacher.

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